Most people are not aware that besides the Five Precepts, the Buddha also gave some very good guidelines for laypeople to follow that pertains "to the happiness directly visible in this present life."
Buddhaghosa has aptly referred to this Sutta as the "Vinaya (Buddhist code of discipline) of the householder." Known as the Sigalovada Sutta, the events take place when the Buddha encountered a youth called Sigala who was prostrating and worshipping the four compass directions (East, South, West and North), and the Earth, and the Sky. The youth explained to the Buddha that he had been told by his father to do so, and thought it was right to uphold his wishes.
The Buddha then skilfully advised Sigala on how a noble one should 'worship' the six directions (adapted from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sigalovada_Sutta):
Avoid evil ways
The Buddha first describes fourteen evil ways that should be avoided
by a householder. The Buddha enumerates these evil ways to be avoided
as:
- The four defilements of action:
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- taking life (panatipato)
- stealing (adinnadanam)
- sexual misconduct (kamesu micchacaro)
- lying (musavado)
- The four causes of evil action:
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- desire (chanda)
- hate (dosa)
- ignorance (moha)
- fear (bhaya)
- The six ways of squandering wealth:
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- indulging in intoxicants
- wandering the streets at inappropriate times
- frequenting public spectacle
- compulsive gambling
- malevolent companionship
- habitual idleness
Choose true friends
The Buddha then elaborated on the importance of having and being a
true friend, as he described what true friends are; and what true
friends are not; and, how true friends will aid in attaining a blissful
life.
Protect close relationships
Finally, returning to the topic of the six directions, the Buddha
described the Four Compass Direction as : parents (East), teachers
(South), wife
(West), and friends and colleagues (North), and the two vertical
directions as: ascetics and Brahmins (Up) and the Servants (Down). He
elaborated on how to respect and support them, and how in turn the Six
will return the kindness and support.
The householder's commitments and the reciprocal acts of those he
honors, as identified by the Buddha, are represented below in accordance
with the four directions on the horizontal plane (east, south, west and
north):
North FRIENDS |
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commitments | reciprocal acts | ||||
generosity kind words helpfulness impartiality integrity |
supportiveness protect your wealth provide shelter loyalty honor your family |
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West WIFE |
East PARENTS |
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commitments | reciprocal acts | commitments | reciprocal acts | ||
honor her respect her fidelity share authority provide gifts |
organize duties hospitality fidelity wise budgeting skillfulness |
support them fulfill their duties honor traditions deserve inheritance honor their passing |
restrain from evil nurture goodness teach skills arrange marriage provide inheritance |
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South TEACHERS |
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commitments | reciprocal acts | ||||
rise to greet them attend to them eager receptivity serve them master their teaching |
thoroughly instruct ensure comprehension provide well-roundedness provide referrals ensure safety |
Nadir WORKERS |
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Zenith ASCETICS |
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commitments | reciprocal acts | commitments | reciprocal acts | |||
apt work just wages health care perks leave time |
rise early stay late no stealing work well allegiance |
loving acts loving speech loving thoughts hospitality material support |
restrain from evil nurture goodness lovingkindness enlighten clarify teach goodness |
Read the entire Sigalovada Sutta here:
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/dn/dn.31.0.ksw0.html